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Friday, November 30, 2012

Dating Laura - Aligned for Ministry

By Daryl Durand (Flickr: Piano Tuner Kansas City, MO) [CC-BY-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia CommonsIt was February, just before my 21st birthday. In the church basement where we prepared for the evening service there was an old upright piano; the kind you usually find in church basements. Music majors like finding pianos. Laura sat down and began to play. I recognized the intro and couldn’t resist singing Lionel Richie’s first lines...


Five great questions of life: Life * Love * Learning * Labor * Leadership
 
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Dating Laura - Aligned for Ministry


By Evan Nehring


Laura and I toured together for a year in One Accord, a band put together at North Central Bible College. We had a great group; nine of us. We went through auditions and selection at the end of the prior school year and then spent the fall semester preparing for tour. We rehearsed in a corner storage room behind the chapel. It wasn’t very big, but we were able to set up and leave everything in place for a few months. It was beyond exciting. We were going on tour!
 
It was February, just before my 21st birthday. In the church basement where we prepared for the evening service there was an old upright piano; the kind you usually find in church basements. Music majors like finding pianos. Laura sat down and began to play. I recognized the intro and couldn’t resist singing Lionel Richie’s first lines:
My love, there’s only you in my life
The only thing that’s right
 Laura kept playing and followed along like Diana Ross:
My first love, you’re every breath that I take
You’re every step I make
 Then the duet Billboard named the greatest song duet of all time…
And I (I-I-I-I-I), I want to share all my love with you
No one else will do…
And your eyes (your eyes, your eyes)
They tell me how much you care
Ooh yes, you will always be
My endless love
By Daryl Durand (Flickr: Piano Tuner Kansas City, MO) [CC-BY-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons
 
It wasn’t endless, but it definitely didn’t end that night. We found some opportunities to talk long and deep about a future full of loving God, loving people, and loving each other. Youth ministry, music ministry, children’s ministry: we could see the meshing of the gifts.
 
It got pretty serious. After tour was over we met each others’ families. We looked at rings. We talked about dates. And then things just started to turn blah. Maybe the whole thing was more about lining ourselves up for a church staff than it ever was about relationship.
 
We had this really interesting talk about not really feeling like the relationship was meant to be. It started out very cautious and concerned about one another’s feelings, but it turned out that we were both relieved to find out the other felt the same. By the end of the conversation she discovered that I was interested in someone else and I discovered that she liked my roomie! I still consider “setting them up” one of my life’s greatest accomplishments.
 
It was still hard. Really hard sometimes. But there was Martha…
 

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